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# Adoption Experience From Adoptee's Viewpoint

 Posted by [Kelly Wallace](https://blog.gladneyadoption.com/author/kelly-wallace) on  Apr 12, 2017 8:30:00 AM

Apr 12, 2017

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 I wrote "Dear Baby" about my adoption experience as an adoptee.  

This is a story told in three letters. The first is taken from Waitress, written by Jenna to her unborn child. The second is from my birth mother, written to me just after she [gave me up for adoption](https://blog.gladneyadoption.com/giving-a-baby-up-for-adoption-fl). The third is from me, to the baby I hope to have someday.

Click on the photo to read my post.

[![baby.jpg](https://blog.gladneyadoption.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/baby-Oct-25-2020-10-11-12-05-PM.jpg?width=320&name=baby-Oct-25-2020-10-11-12-05-PM.jpg)](http://www.kellywallace.net/blog/2016/8/6/dear-baby)

***~[Kelly](http://www.kellywallace.net/)***  
Adoptee, Writer, Activist, Pokemon Master

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